Beware the Contested Guardianship!

Guardianship proceedings exist to create protection for people who are no longer capable of making decisions for themselves. Often, a relative, such as an adult child, will bring a guardian petition when the mental abilities of an elderly person has started to deteriorate. Sometimes, a guardian petition is brought by a concerned family member to protect the elderly person from the exploitation of another.

In my experience, most guardianship petitions are uncontested and well-intentioned. But sometimes, a guardianship petition becomes just another phase in a bigger dispute among adult children. Far too often, disputes between adult siblings get heated because there is a belief that mom has money.

A contested guardianship case can become a problem quickly. In Virginia, if a guardianship petition is successful, and the elderly person's estate has the funds, all of the costs, including lawyers' fees, are paid from the elderly person's estate. If the adult children cannot agree on what is best for the elderly parent, and litigation ensues, this means that money that should be used for mom's care winds up getting eaten away by lawyers' fees.

Morally, adult children should give serious thought to just how hard they want to fight in a contested guardianship case. In fighting to control what happens to mom and her assets, the children could wind up throwing her money away.

Special Needs Trusts and Your Will

A colleague asked me when a special needs trust is written into a will, does a new document creating the trust need to be drafted. I answered that if the trust was created properly, then no.

However, this raised a separate question for me. Why was the special needs trust created by will, as opposed to a living trust?

To back up, a special needs trust is an instrument to make funds available to benefit a person with disabilities, so that the person would not be disqualified for public assistance. It must be drafted and administered properly, or else the funds in the trust can be considered resources, and thus disqualify the person for government programs such as Medicaid.

The problem with writing a special needs trust in the will is that the will has to be probated. Once the will is probated, here in Virginia, the Commissioner of Accounts for that county will be responsible to oversee the administration of the trust. This will necessarily involve the filing of inventories and accountings, filing fees, and the expense of hiring professionals, such as a lawyer and accountant, to make sure the filings are done properly. All of this can add to the hassle and expense of administering the trust.

A better way to handle the desire to make a special needs trust as part of an estate plan is to create the trust as part of a living trust. That way, upon death, the trust does not have to go through probate, and you do not have the watchful eye of the Commissioner of Accounts over you.

If you want to benefit a person with disabilities through your estate plan, it is best to consult a lawyer experienced and educated in special needs trusts to assist you and create the most efficient plan for you.

Who Will Make Your Funeral Arrangements?

While many people do not want to think about their own funeral arrangements, there are some who have some pretty strong feelings about the subject. The question is, how do you enforce your wishes, since you will not be around to direct your family?

Under Virginia law, the next of kin are entitled to make the decision regarding the disposition of a loved one's body and the funeral arrangements. But, the definition of next of kin is broad, including a spouse and any adult children. If there is disagreement, then the disagreeing next of kin can petition the circuit court.

This seems like an awful lot of trouble. It is especially problematic where a person has entered into a second marriage, or where a person is separated from his or her spouse and has not yet gotten a divorce.

Virginia law does have a solution. A person can designate an individual to be the person to make the decisions regarding the funeral arrangements and the disposition of the body. The designation must be in writing and notarized. It must also be accepted in writing.

If you feel strongly about the disposition of your body and your funeral arrangements, this should be part of your estate plan. You should put your desires in writing, and designate a person whom you trust to go through with your plan. A lawyer can help you accomplish this.