Why Parents Need an Estate Plan

Everybody should have an estate plan. But, planning is critical for parents with minor children. Surely, one of the things a new parent does is to make sure that they have life insurance to protect their young ones. Well, think of an estate plan as an extension of that life insurance.

First, and most important, every parent should think about whom they would want to raise their children if the parents were gone. This is by far the hardest thing for any parent to think about. But, it is the most critical. You don't want your children to find themselves the wards of the court. Court battles can be messy, and can take time. Meanwhile, the children may need to be in foster care until the case can be completed and a new guardian appointed. You want to make sure that you decide who is going to raise them. Plus, in Virginia, this step is easy to do. Appointing a standby guardian who can act immediately upon an emergency is a simple act of completing a one page document.

Once you know who could be taking care of your children, you need to give them the tools. In this regard, note that leaving a large sum of money to a minor directly is a bad thing. If no one is named as custodian, then there will have to be proceedings to name a guardian of the estate. This includes the appointment of a guardian ad litem to investigate the case. In Fairfax County, I've noticed that not all guardians ad litem understand the law completely and may insist that the money left to a minor, including insurance proceeds, be deposited with the court until the minor reaches eighteen. Plus, we have the added problem that under the law, any money left to a minor directly becomes the minor's money at age eighteen with no strings attached. How many eighteen year olds who you know are responsible to manage thousands of dollars given to them all at once?

The simple and most flexible solution is a living trust, either naming the potential guardian as the contingent trustee to take over after the parents' deaths, or naming another responsible person as the contingent trustee with instructions to cooperate with the potential guardian. Naming the trust as the beneficiary of life insurance proceeds should both parents pass is one way to make sure that all of the money is managed in a single, simple plan.

The point is that all of this is simple to create. It takes just a few meetings with a lawyer to plan, and some thought on the part of the parent. But, for a parent, it is one of the most critical things you can do to protect your children.

Giving a Gift to a Minor Through Your Estate Plan

Whether to a child, a grandchild, a special niece or nephew, many people wish to give gifts to minors through their estate plan. It can be accomplished through a will, a trust, a life insurance policy, or even by naming a beneficiary on a retirement account. Making the gift correctly can avoid a lot of hassle.

In this article, I am not addressing the tax implications through the estate tax, the gift tax or the general skipping transfer tax. I am only addressing the mechanics of how the transfer is made.

Many states, like Virginia, have the Uniform Transfer to Minors Act. If a minor is the beneficiary of a gift from a will, trust, insurance policy or other source, then the gift-giver has the power to appoint a custodian. The custodian then has the authority to hold the gift for the minor until the minor reaches 18, and use the money for the minor’s benefit.

If the gift-giver fails to name a custodian, then this can create problems. In Virginia, the person who wants to hold the property for the minor must then petition the court to be appointed the guardian of the estate of the minor. This is true, even if that person is the minor’s custodial parent. The guardian of the estate must post a bond with surety, and then comes under the supervision of the Commissioner of Accounts. Before using the money for the minor’s support, the guardian of the estate must consider all other sources of income or support for the minor. Generally, this means that the money cannot be used until the minor reaches the age of eighteen. As you can see, the need to go to court and the supervision afterwards creates a hassle and expense.

Other options in this situation can be for the Commissioner of Accounts to hold the money in an interest bearing account until the minor reaches the age of eighteen. Or, if insurance proceeds, the insurance company can hold the money until the minor reaches the age of 18.

Nonetheless, these options all leave something to be desired. It involves giving up control, and/or accepting court supervision.

The way to solve that problem is by leaving the gift through a well crafted trust. By creating a trust, the gift giver can define how the money is to be used, and when the money is to be turned over the to minor. For example, the trust can provide that the money can be used at the discretion of the trustee for the minor’s expenses. The money need not be turned over when the minor reaches age 18. Rather, if there is a concern that the minor would not be responsible enough, then the money can continue to be held in trust until the beneficiary reaches a suitable age, as defined by the gift-giver. Moreover, if the minor is disabled, as defined by Social Security law, then the trust can and should be drafted in such a way so as to avoid disqualifying the beneficiary from government benefits.

Gifts to minors through an estate plan are usually best made through a trust. For advice on how to craft such a trust to suit your specific needs and desires, call me at (703) 837-8832.

Blended Families Require Special Estate Planning

If you are part of a blended family, then you may need to do some special estate planning to ensure that your personal goals are met.

A blended family is one where either spouse has children from a prior marriage or relationship. Blended families raise estate planning issues because of the need to balance responsibilities to the current spouse, as well as to the children from the prior relationship.

Without special planning, you may find that you goals are not being met.
For example, in Virginia, where a person is married, but has children from a prior relationship, and that person dies without a will, then one-third of the estate passes to the current spouse, and two-thirds are split among all of the decedent’s children. Notice, by the way, that I specifically said “prior relationship,” and not “prior marriage.” That is in recognition that the law protects illegitimate children as much as legitimate children.

This default estate plan, which is called the law of intestacy, may cause some problems for your surviving loved ones. For example, if you have children from a prior marriage, but they are adults, and your current spouse depends on your income and property, the law of intestacy works against your current spouse.

The solution is to carefully think about your family responsibilities and your estate plan goals, talk about them with your spouse, and work with an estate planning attorney to make your goals happen. Here are some tips on how you may be able to achieve your estate planning goals.

Communicate with Your Spouse

The first step is to make sure that you and your spouse are on the same page. Talk openly about your responsibilities to your children from your prior relationship. Talk about your expectations for any children you may have in your current marriage. Talk about what property rights you have, and how you expect to dispose of those rights on your death.

Conclude a Prenuptial or Marital Agreement

Once you and your current spouse (or, ideally your future spouse) have discussed your respective responsibilities, you should come to an understanding concerning your property. Formalize that understanding with a prenuptial agreement (before the wedding) or marital agreement (after the wedding). In Virginia, a marital agreement is just as valid as a prenuptial agreement.

Many people will resist prenuptial agreements with their future spouses. Some view them as merely planning for an eventual divorce. Some of your friends, or even misinformed attorneys may echo that thought.

A prenuptial or marital agreement, however, is not simply planning for an eventual divorce. Rather, it can be a tool to start the conversation about property and expectations. It can be an opportunity to clarify estate planning goals. Formalizing the expectations in a written agreement can avoid confusion and misunderstandings later in the marriage.

For example, if both spouses are coming into a marriage with their own property, it could be that neither spouse would be dependent on the property of the other after one passes away. In such a situation, the spouses may agree to waive any interest in each other’s estate plan, in order to permit the other spouse to address other family responsibilities.

Or, it could be that your spouse is dependent on your income and property. But, to fulfill family obligations, you may want to take care of your spouse for life, and have your property pass to your family upon her death. This can be addressed in a prenuptial or marital agreement.

Put Your Plan into Action

Finally, you need to develop the tools to put your plan into action. The tools could involve a trust to benefit your spouse during her life, but then pass the property to your children on her death. The tools could involve life insurance, and properly structuring the life insurance. These are all issues you should address with your estate planning attorney and other professionals, such as an accountant and financial advisor.

With proper communication and planning, you can balance your family obligations, and manage the expectations of your loved ones.